{"id":439,"date":"2013-06-28T14:07:20","date_gmt":"2013-06-28T21:07:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vincecharming.com\/awp\/?page_id=439"},"modified":"2013-07-12T13:45:56","modified_gmt":"2013-07-12T20:45:56","slug":"pay-for-love","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/vincecharming.com\/awp\/pay-for-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Pay For Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: x-large; color: #339966;\">Welcome to a page all about \u201cPay For Love\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Click on the arrow to activate the exfm player: \u00a0<\/span><a style=\"font-size: medium;\" href=\"http:\/\/vincecharming.com\/awp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Pay-For-Love.mp3\">Pay For Love<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Read below for credits, the story, and lyrics.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">The players:<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">VC: \u00a0lead \u00a0&amp; harmony vocals, Moserite acoustic guitar, Danelectro DC 12 electric 12-string guitar (rhythm &amp; lead), \u00a0Fender Precision bass guitar, drum programming, &#8220;Cousin&#8221; Ken Maffeo: backing vocals<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The Story:<\/p>\n<p>I wrote these words in 2006 and really wanted this to be a song for my then band, The New Americans. I tried and tried and tried but could not write music to go with the words. Finally in the midst of recording this CD I finally had a breakthrough and the song became what you hear now. I immediately knew this would be a song for my newly purchased Danelectro electric 12 string and knew this would have a mid-sixties Byrds type sound to it. But I also found the song&#8217;s inner &#8220;Rubber Soul&#8221; (think &#8220;Nowhere Man) when &#8220;Cousin&#8221; Ken and I worked on all the backing vocals&#8230;again I had recorded them all myself, but Ken just made them so much better. I also had originally envisioned this song as a duet&#8230;but that did not work out.\u00a0Now&#8230;this song has been called cynical and as someone who has been famously called a romantic, I have to disagree. I think \u00a0it&#8217;s much more realistic than cynical. It came to be as a hodgepodge of stories and impressions from people like me on the dating scene. As is often the case the original inspiration for the song was a single line that had bounced around in my head: &#8220;What good is your money if you don\u2019t spend it on someone.&#8221; But I also intended to show that we all &#8220;pay for love&#8221; in many ways whether it involves money, suffering or sacrifice. When trying to impress we often &#8220;put our money where our mouth is&#8221; &#8230;both women who in middle age often go to ridiculous extremes and men to who may pay quite more literally to meet their needs. It&#8217;s social observation, but it&#8217;s also a bit tongue in cheek, and thus I will continue to protest the cynical label. Of course I can&#8217;t leave out the guitar lead played with my &#8220;magic fingers.&#8221; I had written the lead part and played a rough version and waited and waited for several other musicians to do the lead&#8230;but wait I did for over a year until I finally just went back and redid it myself! Not bad, if I do say so!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Lyrics<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Pay for Love<\/strong><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Chorus:<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0When love doesn\u2019t pay<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">You\u2019ve got to pay for love<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">What good is your money<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">If you don\u2019t spend it on someone<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">You got to pay for love<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">When love doesn\u2019t pay<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">We all have been there<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Or else we\u2019ll be there someday<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">She can put another personal ad on the website<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Or take a trip down to the corner pub<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">She can sit and complain about wrinkles and cellulite<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Or work out at the gym or dance down at the pub<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">It\u2019s all about choice, it\u2019s all about changes<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">And sometimes you have to put your money where your mouth is<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Chorus<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">He once had it all; had the girl of his dreams<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Now the only sweetness he has is a pint of ice cream<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">He became the man he always thought he\u2019d become<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">But nice doesn\u2019t fly with his type of woman<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">He knows it\u2019s all about choice, knows it\u2019s all about changes<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Knows it\u2019s time to put some money where his mouth is<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">A bayside hotel, a fourth floor view<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Naked and naughty sure kills those blues<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">A girl half his age, bills on the nightstand<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Smiling as he slips through the moral quicksand<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Since love never paid<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Now he\u2019ll pay for love<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">All that money\u2019s no good<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Unless he spends it on someone<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">So he\u2019ll pay for love<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Because love didn\u2019t pay<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">He\u2019s been there before<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">Perhaps he won\u2019t be someday<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">VC<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">4\/8\/06<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Welcome to a page all about \u201cPay For Love\u201d Click on the arrow to activate the exfm player: \u00a0Pay For Love Read below for credits, the story, and lyrics. 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